Toad in the Hole
March 05, 2007
My sister died Friday afternoon when we had life support withdrawn.
I'll write more when I get home. This sucks more than anything else in my life, ever.Posted at March 5, 2007 03:58 AM
Oh, honey. I'm so, so, so sorry.
Posted by: Sara at March 5, 2007 03:42 PM
(((((( ron )))))) thinking of you and your fmaily. i'm so very sorry.
Posted by: kathy a at March 5, 2007 03:48 PM
Fuck. I'm so sorry.
Posted by: Chris Clarke at March 5, 2007 04:17 PM
Ron - I'm sorry to hear this. You're in my thoughts.
Posted by: PSoTD at March 5, 2007 06:04 PM
I would write a poem about how
the room where the loved one died
was very small. This poem would pull
away the walls of the room
into a very dark blue infinity, full
of stars, and clouds, and the sounds
of night insects, and comets,
and the northern lights!
I would write a poem that worked out
how the forces pass through the room:
grief, anger, fear, and terror.
I would write a poem that was simple
as I could make it.
The poem would speak of the loved one,
how she came and passed through the room.
How the loved one spoke, groaned, was gone.
The poem would speak of the faces
of everyone in the room, and of how the forces
appeared on their faces.
This poem would be a drink of water
Because grief turns everything to ash
in your mouth. This poem would help you sleep,
this poem would help you cry,
this poem would help
you to speak of your grief,
and the room and the forces,
and the loved one gone.
This poem would help you.
I would write that poem, if I could.
Posted by: B. Dagger Lee at March 5, 2007 06:50 PM
Damn. I only cruise by once in a while Ron, but have to commiserate. So sad to read your news.
Posted by: tigtog at March 5, 2007 08:01 PM
I'm so sorry Ron.
Posted by: Carl Buell (OGeorge) at March 5, 2007 09:44 PM
Oh, I'm so so sorry to hear.
Posted by: evil_fizz at March 5, 2007 09:44 PM
Ron, I only know you through exchanges on Chris' blog. I really can't imagine your pain -- I'm so sorry to hear about this.
Posted by: Charles at March 5, 2007 11:32 PM
We are so sorry, Ron. We'll be thinking of you. You are right - life really does suck sometimes.
Posted by: Rita Xavier at March 6, 2007 12:49 AM
Jeebus. I've been thinking of you. Now I know why. Write when you're ready, I have a not very damp shoulder.
Posted by: thepoliticalcat at March 6, 2007 06:15 AM
Yes, it DOES suck more than anything, ever. I'm so sorry.
(BDL, thank you for that poem.)
Posted by: narya at March 6, 2007 11:41 AM
Oh Ron, I'm so sorry. Words fail.
Posted by: alphabitch at March 6, 2007 02:18 PM
Take time to heal, to grieve, to honor your sister and her life. Take comfort in peace where you can. I'm so sorry.
Posted by: Sally at March 7, 2007 12:08 AM
I'm so sorry.
Posted by: Kristjan Wager at March 11, 2007 11:39 AM
I am so sorry for your loss.
Posted by: Alicia at March 15, 2007 12:34 AM